Reddit User Wants To Know If It's Wrong To Deny Your Friend For Taking Care Of Their Animals
We all have friends, and there are times that they might need our help, or even we might need their help. As the saying goes, "A friend in need is a friend indeed."
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Sometimes, a few friends just give all their responsibility to one person and expect them to take care of that thing entirely after that, which is so not justified. There are some people who take up the responsibility wholeheartedly, but after a while, it all starts to feel like a burden that has been imposed on them.
At times you give something to a friend like a thing to take care of, especially if it is a living thing that requires a lot of time, patience, and even money. It becomes the givers' duty to either ask their friends if they are comfortable, and it is just not right to abandon their friend after they have taken such good care of your things.
It is very selfish of a person to force and pressure someone to do something on their behalf, a job or duty that was solely the givers' responsibility. And when they refuse to do it after a while, the giver needs to understand their friend's boundaries, respect them and relieve them of that weight.
It is completely fine help your friend when they need help and refuse to help further when the limit's been crossed.
Everyone offers help to their friends, but when the friend start taking advantage of it we need to cut them off.
It's crystal clear that the friend just doesn't care about animals.
A good person would never hinder the peace of their true friends.
Well, its time to take some strict and necessary actions.
Its more about the animals here than their cost of living.
Don't get used as a cheap pet hotel, at least be an expensive one.
Hats off to you for going beyond your limits just to take care of the poor beings.
Know your exact responsibilities and make agreements before taking them up.
Do your research before taking up the responsibility of a pet owner or a pet caretaker.
The packaging is just deceiving for getting more customers.
Sweet and simple and to the point.
It's unfair to bail out at the last movement; that too of such a significant liability.
Here the pet and the pet caretaker both were suffering on multiple levels.
Yes, the friend is selfish and irresponsible, also a bad one.
It's high time; give her an ultimatum.
Don't let anyone take advantage of you, be it your friend.
The pets must be wishing to stay with the new owner forever.
Take suggestions from strangers; they are of more help than your friends sometimes.
Indeed it is a great problem to be over-generous.
Do good for the piggies by rehoming them instead of giving them back to her.
Sometimes, we take our friends for granted, which is fine because friends share a great and unique bond, but it's completely wrong to take advantage of their innocence and helpful nature.
Share this story with people with big hearts, and I hope it inspires them to say "NO" to their friends who try to take advantage of them.